She will not expect you to marry her or anything like that. She will remember making love the first time with you for the rest of her life. Some girls are simply fed up with their virginity and just want to get over it - and that's fine. But for most girls, rather than being deeply in love with their first guy, they need to like and trust the man they're choosing to gift with their virginity. A whole weekend is even better because this gives you unrushed time to create that special "to.